Comments on: How To Guide For Female Ejaculation http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/ a sex-positive femme queer collaborative blog for femmes by femmes. Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:53:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Janey L http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-224 Janey L Mon, 20 Oct 2008 21:42:54 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-224 Yay for all squirters, and a helpful welcome pack (and towel set) to those who should discover how to. I find the longer a build up of other mental and physical pleasures adds to the likelihood, and once you've had one or two, they come so much easier. All females can have these, we just need the opportunity and attention to bring them on, and the lack of fear of having them. Yesterday I had the obscene pleasure of having my wrists tied together and set around my vagina, so whilst I was spanked, I squirted all over my own hands - which was so hot it made me squirt even more!!! Mentally delightful. Yay for all squirters, and a helpful welcome pack (and towel set) to those who should discover how to. I find the longer a build up of other mental and physical pleasures adds to the likelihood, and once you’ve had one or two, they come so much easier. All females can have these, we just need the opportunity and attention to bring them on, and the lack of fear of having them. Yesterday I had the obscene pleasure of having my wrists tied together and set around my vagina, so whilst I was spanked, I squirted all over my own hands – which was so hot it made me squirt even more!!! Mentally delightful.

]]> By: The Best Sex Bloggers » Throe It Down - A Revew of The Liberator Throe http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-218 The Best Sex Bloggers » Throe It Down - A Revew of The Liberator Throe Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:51:56 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-218 [...] of wetness behind from your own ejaculation (squirting). Again, this is awesome during sex, in fact women are striving to achieve this, but when it comes to dealing with the mess, it’s the last thing I want to do - I just want [...] [...] of wetness behind from your own ejaculation (squirting). Again, this is awesome during sex, in fact women are striving to achieve this, but when it comes to dealing with the mess, it’s the last thing I want to do – I just want [...]

]]> By: Catalina Loves » Catalina loves The Liberator Throe http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-217 Catalina Loves » Catalina loves The Liberator Throe Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:47:06 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-217 [...] wetness behind from your own ejaculation (squirting).  Again, this is awesome during sex, in fact women are striving to achieve this, but when it comes to dealing with the mess, it’s the last thing I want to do - I just want [...] [...] wetness behind from your own ejaculation (squirting).  Again, this is awesome during sex, in fact women are striving to achieve this, but when it comes to dealing with the mess, it’s the last thing I want to do – I just want [...]

]]> By: Roxy Harte http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-182 Roxy Harte Fri, 03 Oct 2008 23:59:51 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-182 Hmmm.....Lilly...who asked does (FE) heighten the orgasm...? For me, I orgasm stronger when I combine clitoral and g-spot (FE) orgasms...but I've had g-spot orgasms both with FE and without FE and honestly it does seem more intense. But it could be just the emotional reaction to "soaking" someone else. I mean it's embarrassing, it's exciting...it's always a very visual orgasm. Also, I think it depends on the partners reaction too...men who like it will do anything to get it to happen again and again and again...which can lead to some pretty mind blowing orgasms. At least I think that every successive one is a little more intense with... I've also talked to women who hate the whole experience and say they would much rather have just a "nice, quiet orgasm"... So, I guess my answer is *Shrug*... Hugs Roxy Hmmm…..Lilly…who asked does (FE) heighten the orgasm…?

For me, I orgasm stronger when I combine clitoral and g-spot (FE) orgasms…but I’ve had g-spot orgasms both with FE and without FE and honestly it does seem more intense. But it could be just the emotional reaction to “soaking” someone else. I mean it’s embarrassing, it’s exciting…it’s always a very visual orgasm.

Also, I think it depends on the partners reaction too…men who like it will do anything to get it to happen again and again and again…which can lead to some pretty mind blowing orgasms. At least I think that every successive one is a little more intense with…

I’ve also talked to women who hate the whole experience and say they would much rather have just a “nice, quiet orgasm”…

So, I guess my answer is *Shrug*…

Hugs
Roxy

]]> By: Roxy Harte http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-181 Roxy Harte Fri, 03 Oct 2008 23:53:02 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-181 Hi SLF...first...thanks for following the blog;) And yessss....I loved your comment!! Washing machine huh? I love the combination of routine household chores becoming grounds for a sexual encounter...so HOT! Hugs Roxy Hi SLF…first…thanks for following the blog;)
And yessss….I loved your comment!! Washing machine huh? I love the combination of routine household chores becoming grounds for a sexual encounter…so HOT!
Hugs
Roxy

]]> By: Samantha http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-164 Samantha Thu, 25 Sep 2008 18:13:42 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-164 As a fellow female ejaculator... Thank you for posting this! I really don't think there is enough accurate information on the topic available. Google will take you to porn (where it is assumed it is fake) or questionable sites that debate urine vs. fluid while giving no definitive answers. So to you Miss Roxy, I say Bravo! As a fellow female ejaculator…

Thank you for posting this! I really don’t think there is enough accurate information on the topic available. Google will take you to porn (where it is assumed it is fake) or questionable sites that debate urine vs. fluid while giving no definitive answers.

So to you Miss Roxy, I say Bravo!

]]> By: Roxy Harte http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-162 Roxy Harte Wed, 24 Sep 2008 18:17:58 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-162 Glad you stopped by, Jeanne...and thank goddess those horrid "olden days" are a thing of the past... Glad you stopped by, Jeanne…and thank goddess those horrid “olden days” are a thing of the past…

]]> By: Diana DeRicci http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-157 Diana DeRicci Wed, 24 Sep 2008 03:11:39 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-157 I'm kind of like Jeanne. I had no idea we could do such a thing. I was alone the first time it happened to me :blush: Oddly enough I don't know if the G-spot has ever even been found. I'm not sensitive to it, not consciously. I’m kind of like Jeanne. I had no idea we could do such a thing. I was alone the first time it happened to me :blush: Oddly enough I don’t know if the G-spot has ever even been found. I’m not sensitive to it, not consciously.

]]> By: slf http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-156 slf Wed, 24 Sep 2008 02:58:30 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-156 Thank you for posting this! (and a hundred other things LOL) I just started following blogs (yeah - i know.... 'bout time huh?) - and yours is one of them! Ever since I started using vibrators etc (in my teens) I noticed that sometimes I would get to the point where it felt like I had to pee - so (of course) I'd stop. LOL And that's pretty much how it was until.... Years later (two years ago) I was with a male partner who had a different style of sex than I was used to (he's do it piston like - very erect - very fast) and I found that I was leaving little puddles everywhere. At first I was embarassed because he responded negatively to it. But then, after to talking to a fw of my female friends, I learned that I might be ejaculating. Hmmmm... interesting concept.... LOL Then, oh then..... *grin* I met my present partner. One night we decided to have a little fun in the basement whilst doing 'laundry'. Well, he was fingering me in front of the washing machine (we were both standing) and suddenly I was gushing! I soaked his hand, my thighs, and the floor!! I was pretty damned shocked lemme tell ya ... LOL His response was, "Holy FUCK that's hot". Hmmmm.... interesting response. LOL! Anywho - my best advice would be this: 1. Be comfortable with yourself and your body. 2. Be comfortable with the person you are with. 3. Be comfortable with the thought of making a mess. 4. RELAX - breath.... FEEEEEEL what's happening to you. 5. Kinda 'bear down' when you feel the pressure building... and don't be afraid to let it go! If it helps to ease your mind, go pee before you start (I still make one hellova mess when I do this lol) Also, for me personally, I've found that standing or kneeling works best for squirting. (Perhaps gravity helps bring my g-spot into the right position? meh.. who knows) Anywho... Have a blast with it. It's a WHOLE new world..... MWAH!! slf Thank you for posting this! (and a hundred other things LOL) I just started following blogs (yeah – i know…. ’bout time huh?) – and yours is one of them!

Ever since I started using vibrators etc (in my teens) I noticed that sometimes I would get to the point where it felt like I had to pee – so (of course) I’d stop. LOL And that’s pretty much how it was until….

Years later (two years ago) I was with a male partner who had a different style of sex than I was used to (he’s do it piston like – very erect – very fast) and I found that I was leaving little puddles everywhere. At first I was embarassed because he responded negatively to it. But then, after to talking to a fw of my female friends, I learned that I might be ejaculating. Hmmmm… interesting concept…. LOL

Then, oh then….. *grin* I met my present partner. One night we decided to have a little fun in the basement whilst doing ‘laundry’. Well, he was fingering me in front of the washing machine (we were both standing) and suddenly I was gushing! I soaked his hand, my thighs, and the floor!! I was pretty damned shocked lemme tell ya … LOL

His response was, “Holy FUCK that’s hot”.

Hmmmm…. interesting response. LOL!

Anywho – my best advice would be this:

1. Be comfortable with yourself and your body.
2. Be comfortable with the person you are with.
3. Be comfortable with the thought of making a mess.
4. RELAX – breath…. FEEEEEEL what’s happening to you.
5. Kinda ‘bear down’ when you feel the pressure building… and don’t be afraid to let it go!

If it helps to ease your mind, go pee before you start (I still make one hellova mess when I do this lol)

Also, for me personally, I’ve found that standing or kneeling works best for squirting. (Perhaps gravity helps bring my g-spot into the right position? meh.. who knows)

Anywho… Have a blast with it. It’s a WHOLE new world…..

MWAH!!

slf

]]> By: Lilly http://femmesguide.com/2008/09/how-to-guide-for-female-ejaculation/comment-page-1/#comment-155 Lilly Wed, 24 Sep 2008 02:21:42 +0000 http://femmesguide.com/?p=290#comment-155 Ok so - for those of us who have NOT ever felt that uncomfortable build-up....why try to ejaculate? Does the act of going so heighten the orgasm? Ok so – for those of us who have NOT ever felt that uncomfortable build-up….why try to ejaculate? Does the act of going so heighten the orgasm?

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