Archive for November, 2008

Sex Toy Review: Eros Bodyglide

If I had to choose my absolute favorite lube (and trust me, I’ve tried it a lot!), it would hands down be Eros Bodyglide. Yes, I know. A dyke whose favorite lube is silicone based. It’s true. Granted, I don’t use it on silicone toys (and if you wanted to, you can, you just need [...]

shoes!

Prompted in part by a post from  Ms. Hinterland where she mentioned her first pair of heels, and then even further inspired by finding the CUTEST new shoes today, that were on sale for $10 regularly $60 (‘Sugar shoe’ black mary janes with a crazy floral print, and a thick chunky 2 inch heel) I [...]

Help Support Queer and Erotic Artists

**An Open Letter From Madison Young** Hello lovely people, As you may or may not know, I not only perform in some of your favorite adult films and bondage sites but I’m also an artist and activist who runs a progressive art gallery in San Francisco, Femina Potens Art Gallery (www.feminapotens.org) Femina Potens has provided [...]

How To: Make A Cupcake Pincushion From A Bottlecap

Okay, I adore cupcakes. If you give me a choice between cupcakes and cake, I’m going to pick cupcakes every time. They are cute, colorful, and just the perfect little mouthful of goodness. . . You know what I mean? This craft combines one thing I love (cupcakes) along with another thing I love (recycling), [...]

Thankful for Femmes

Today, on the eve of thanksgiving I’ve been thinking a great deal about what queer community means to me,  and more specifically what it means to have a community of femmes.  This morning I was reading an online community where people were bashing “labels” by which they meant people who identified as butch and femme. [...]

The origin of my femme identity

I’ve just sat down to write the rough draft of my term paper about becoming femme. The problem here, is that I’m not really sure how I became femme. I mean, I’m sure that there are a number of factors that contributed to a femme identity, but it didn’t just hit me over the head [...]

How To: Make Your Unearned Femme Privilege Work For You At The Hardware Store

My father is a general contractor, my grandfather was a general contractor, and my great-grandfather was a general contractor as well. My mother is a photographer. Building, creating, manufacturing, crafting, repairing, managing, and designing were major themes in my childhood. I can remember a small hoard of family members partaking in a heated argument in [...]

Sex Toy Review: Curve Dildo

I’d been craving the Curve Dildo for a really long time. I really wanted to check it out for myself, because I’d heard both really positive and really negative reviews about it. Some people said the curve of well…the Curve, was a little to severe for them. Others said it matched up with their G-spot [...]

Good Dyke Porn

From Video “Eleven – Eddie/Aya in the Woods 3″ on Good Dyke Porn Each time I start writing this review of Good Dyke Porn I have to stop and start over, because I keep on not being able to convey just how much I’ve enjoyed this site, and how wonderful I believe this site and [...]

Sex Toy Review: Kama Sutra Massage Therapy Kit

I have met very few people in my life EVER that don’t like massages. I mean, there are so many types of massages; Swedish, Deep Tissue, Hot Stone, Skin Rolling, and then there is the kind that I do. What is that? Well, I do the best I can. I ask whoever I’m massaging what [...]

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