This week contributors to the anthology ‘Visible: a Femmethology’ (a two-volume look at queer femininity that will be released from Homofactus Press in March) got the devastating news that Jennifer Franet a fellow contributor had died. Jennifer died on December 25th. The news of her passing sent me, and all the other contributors reeling. Though [...]
If you were to visit me, you would notice a preponderance of candles in my house. On the dining room tables, the kitchen counter, the top of the fridge, in my bedroom, on the bookshelves (ok, not a wise sounding idea, but those are ones that aren’t going to get lit for a while). It’s [...]
As we all know, I have a leopard print fetish. Love sac, photo albums, sheets, negligees, pillows, purse, gloves – you name it, I probably have it in leopard print. Ergo, when a certain sex toy company happened to start carrying the Liberator Ramp in LEOPARD PRINT, you can imagine the cravings I felt. Luckily, [...]
I’m betting at least SOME of you read my original post on the Femme Spiral — the Femme’s answer to being pegged as straight women, and the ying to the Butch blue star’s yang. My former partner knew how much it meant to me to get it…but sadly, I’m broke, and can barely afford food, [...]
The Hitachi Magic Wand is the only vibrator you’ll ever need again. I mean, that’s really the entire review of it. It is one of the top selling items at Babeland, but elsewhere as well. Pretty much every sex toy retailer sells more Hitachis than anything else. Why? Because they are freaking amazing. Someone once [...]
I love chocolate. I love touching people. I love skin. Ergo, the Lovers Paintbox was obviously a brilliant choice for me. Instead of playing with these with a partner/lover, I decided to get a wider range of opinions, and I took this kit with me to my birthday party. I figured that we might wind [...]
A quick how-to for making a dammit doll to give at a holiday office party.
In case any of you fierce Femmes, or your friends and lovers, live in Colorado, I’m teaching a class on Wednesday -Essin’ Em Strap On 101, Taught by Shanna Katz, aka Essin’ Em 7pm on December 17th Denver, Colorado Come learn all about the joys and pleasures of strapping it on. Discuss the pros [...]
I haven’t blogged at the Femme’s Guide in awhile and I apologize for that…life got a little too intense and the fallout from that has caused weeks to slip by unnoticed. I woke from my funk when a friend asked the other day if I was “ready for the holidays?” Holidays? From my fog, I [...]
One sex accouterment that I have yet to add to my collection, but that I think is fairly crucial, is a good quality, comfortable, and padded blindfold. I mean, there are many blindfolds that exist, and yes, you could use just any kind of cloth or tie…but we all know that I love my sex [...]
