Archive for February, 2010

The Bitchin’ and Moanin’ Is OVER…

For those of you who have read my earlier posts griping about publishers who claim to publish LGBT and who do indeed provide their readers with the G … but rarely if ever any LBor T … I am finished complaining. At least for now. Why? Because I finally found a publisher willing to take [...]

K.D. Lang at the Olympics *fans my femme self*

my adopted butch moms who took my baby queer self in when I was 17 homeless and in need of family raised me well. Among other things, they taught me to not take shit from wannabe butches, they taught me to trust,  and they taught me to adore K.D Lang. Now I’m not as big [...]

Sacred Kink

“Leather becomes a metaphor for the spirit, that an individual is more durable yet flexible, is beautiful and resilient.  In learning to polish boots, you are learning how to polish your spirit.” -Lee Harrington Sacred Kink Normally when I get a book to review, I devour it quickly. I expected this would be the same [...]

The Big Book of Sex Toys

A not so secret fact is that in college I sold dildos and floggers, and helped people find good lube. For retail it was just about the best job that a bearded lady, genderqueer femme, with foot long hot pink and black pigtail hair extensions, piercings, and tattoos could hope for.  It was also a [...]

One of those lesbians

This is not a new post, but I believe it is relevant to the discussion here. Take a look at my post from November… I’m becoming a different kind of lesbian and a different kind of femme, and it has all been surprising. I quit shaving my legs about 2 months ago. I’m becoming the [...]