The Purpose

The Femmes Guide is a sex-positive femme queer collaborative blog meant to be a fun, enjoyable, educational, and sometimes snarky look at femmeininity and femme culture. We aim to create a resource for the online femme community, where femmes can gain helpful information about navigating in this world as a femme, learn about the way others view their femme identity, and come to a greater understanding of their own femme identity. Perhaps this is a big goal to have.

One theme and purpose of having multiple writers for a blog such as this is to emphasize the diversity within the femme label. No two femmes are exactly alike, and all of our experiences are different. There are femmes in heels and dresses and femmes in blue denim and leather jackets, and everywhere in between and beyond! Femme is more than what you wear, it’s a feeling as well as a chosen label.

We do not believe that we know more than others, but we as individuals all have unique experiences and outlooks in this world. Each one of us can learn from the others in order to discover out our own ways of navigating within this broad category of femme and, further, within culture and society at large. Because no two people’s experiences are identical we value the viewpoints and expressions of everyone, including you!

How Tos - Fun, factual, educational and sometimes snarky how-tos related to femmeininity! Providing amusement as well as practical information.

Reviews - Femmetastic websites/blogs, books, sex toys, and anything else which tickles our fancy! Want your website/product reviewed?

Advice - A wide range of topics in a framework, information which isn’t a guide how to do something, but simply helpful advice for any femme.

Musings - Where our authors post regarding musings around gender, sexuality, and etc. Less structured free-for-all area. Here you can get a glimpse of how each of the authors interacts with her gender, how we feel about femmeininity and how it influences other aspects of our life. A more personal look into each of the authors.

Read all the author’s bios here or click on an individual below to go right to their bio.

Amber
Bevin
Catalina Loves
Ellie Lumpesse
Essin’ Em
Hussy Red
Lady M
Miss Avarice
Ms. Hinterland
Roxy Harte
Sassafras Lowrey
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek