Meet The Authors

The Authors
Amber | Bevin | Essin’ Em | Lee Harrington | Lola Sunshine | Luna Allison | Miss Avarice | Radium | Roxy Harte | Sassafras Lowrey | Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

Archived Authors
Catalina Loves | Ellie Lumpesse | Hussy Red | Lady M | Ms. Hinterland


Amber is a twentysomething queer, delightfully perverted tomboy femme always questing for more knowledge. She doesn’t blog as often as she wants to at Divergent Dance but never shuts up on Twitter (@tomboy_femme), and can often be found curled up with a good book with even better music on in the background. Other interests include bellydance, culinary experimentation, watching silly movies, drinking coffee, growing lilies and fine tuning the great art of snark.


Bevin is the producer and host of FemmeCast: The Queer Fat Femme Podcast Guide to Life and also blogs on the same subject at The Queer Fat Femme Guide to Life. She is a flamboyant femmecee, queer high femme, drag king, burlesque and comedy performer. She also co-produces and hosts Gayety, a Queer Comedy Cabaret based in New York City. She is a member of NOLOSE, Fat and Queer NYC and Volunteer coordinator for Jersey City Pride. She was a founding member and producer of the Royal Renegades of Philadelphia, a drag troupe that performed throughout the US and Canada. Her interests include travel, knitting, cupcakes, music, her shih tzu and community building.


Essin’ Em is a kinky, queer, feminist, politically active, disabled sex-educator Femme, with a bit of a twisted sense of humor. Her sexuality blog can be found at www.Essin-Em.com and her sex educator site is www.ShannaKatz.com. She spends her time pondering sex, sexuality, the gender spectrum, non-traditional relationships, sex toys, erotic writing, queer sexuality, new definitions of feminism and more. In the real world, she has Master’s in Human Sexuality Education, and does work both online and face-to-face, educating people in a variety of ways about a variety of subjects. She is currently the Resident Sexuality Educator for Fascinations (FunLove.com). You can read her sex tips, erotica, fact and fiction in a variety of places, both print and online. For the last 3 years, she’s been part of the advice panel at www.TheLesbianLifestyle.com. In her free time, she’s a mother to three kitties (Kinsey, Kali and Jasper), enjoys vegetarian food and cupcakes, and lives with her social justice rockstar of a partner, to whom she is engaged. Her apartment is a hodgepodge of sexuality books, porn, sex toys, British mysteries and tea – whatever else might you need in life?


Lee Harrington is an eclectic artist, spiritual and erotic educator, gender radical and published author on human sexuality and spiritual experience. As a guy who lived over 25 of his years as a woman, Lee tends to get flack about being femme… if you transitioned, aren’t you supposed to be a man? Not only can men be femme, he states, but so can transmen. He has been an active part of the international kink and sex positive communities for over 13 years, and his award winning writings and photography have appeared in numerous international publications over the years. Before transition he worked as a high femme female adult film actress whose image appeared everywhere from PlayBoy TV to the pages of Skin Two Magazine. Drag queen, performance artist, stylist and more, Lee’s femme street cred did not vanish when he removed his breasts. To learn more about Lee visit www.PassionAndSoul.com.


Miss Lola Sunshine is really just your average, garden variety queer, high femme, switch, slut, sexworker, pervert, and burlesque performer. She enjoys destroying dichotomies, dissecting absolute truths, and dismantling heteronormativity. She believes in sex, glitter, energy explosions, good manners, and cooking with real bacon, butter, and sugar. She lives, works, and plays in the SF Bay Area with her dog Cupcake and over 70 pairs of shoes.


Luna Allison is a relentlessly mouthy queer poly femmeinist living in the urban wilds of Canadia with her butch and femme cats. She splits her time between queer journalism, spoken word, yummy D/s and thinking about femme. Luna enjoys glitter, eloquence, flirty summer dresses, fierce femmeinism, fun shoe/bag combinations, pants-free dance parties, inventive cooking, overwhelmingly large houseplants, shy bois, nightswimming and your bare ass. www.lunaallison.com.


Miss Avarice is a queer, kinky, inquisitive and sexy femme who’s learning to stamp her feet proudly in high heels. She’s a fierce lover and a loyal friend who hates it when people don’t love themselves as much as she loves them. Miss Avarice is a Floridian femme with a B.A. in Women’s Studies (make of that what you will) who is always on the lookout for someone to talk smart and dirty to her. She also blogs at Miss Avarice Speaks Her Mind.


Radium is a hussy high femme living in a tiny, conservative, cobble-stoned city that destroys her heels (but not her sass). A transplant to southern Mexico from NYC, she delights in commiserating with the few homos near her and hanging with other loud/brash women. A sex educator, queer activist, political and labor organizer, Radium likes to stir up trouble and laugh loud enough to attract stares. Identified as kinky, fierce, queer, jewish, feminist and radical (to name a few), Radium keeps notes on all the ways her identities are complicated, challenged and changed in a place with a very different context.


Roxy Harte is an erotica writer, exploring the emotional and psychological elements of relationships immersed in BDSM, LGBT, and polyamorous lifestyles in her novels. She is currently published at Liquid Silver Books and Loose-Id Publishing. Excerpts from many of her books can be found at www.roxyharte.com. She also writes Roxy’s Flog Blog and contributes to four others. She hosts a live chat about reading erotica, writing erotica, being bisexual, and BDSM play at Roxy Harte Live.

Of her sexuality, she admits that she was a boi until she was told it was inappropriate to be both a mother and a boi, sadly giving into that lie until the day came that she decided she could grow a set of balls big enough that she could be Femme all of the time and lust after boi’s and dykes to her hearts content, and sometimes pack and strap-on to remind herself what it once felt like to be just a carefree boi. Growing up in a small town in Ohio, she came out as bisexual in 1978. She has been active in the BDSM community since 1999.


Sassafras Lowrey is an internationally award-winning storyteller, author, artist, and educator. She believes that everyone has a story to tell and that the telling of stories is essential in the creation of social change. Sassafras is the editor of the Kicked Out anthology (www.KickedOutAnthology.com) which brought together the voices of current and former homeless LGBTQ youth. She is a monthly columnist for Curve magazine, and her prose has been included in numerous anthologies. Sassafras regularly teaches LGBTQ storytelling workshops at colleges and conferences across the country and lives in Brooklyn New York with her partner and fuzzy family. To learn more about Sassafras and her work, visit www.PoMoFreakshow.com


Scarlet Lotus St. Syr currently identifies as a genderqueer fat femme drag queen fagette and pomo queer intellisexual polyamorous switch, among other things. Hir gender expression usually comes out within a femme drag queen framework, but zie does not believe in confining hir gender to one category, or binary gender labels, and is just as comfortable in hir pinstripe suit and doc’s as zie is in a dress and heels. Zie has degrees in both Gender Studies and Psychology, both with an emphasis in sexuality, and is currently trying to figure out what else to do with her life. She is the creator and co-editor of The Femme’s Guide. Zie has a self-titled professional site at Scarlet Lotus St. Syr, a sexuality, gender, and relationships blog at Purveyor of Pleasure, a sexuality-related product review blog at Wanton Lotus Reviews, and is the owner/creator/editor of Pleasurists, a weekly adult product review round-up.


Archived Authors


Catalina is a professional sex writer, adult content marketing consultant, blog designer, and dominatrix. She writes six of her own blogs and contributes to seven others, her central blog being Catalina Loves. She is the editor of The Week In Kink, a weekly digest of her favorite kinky posts of the week and The Good Things List, a weekly list of recommended sites. Her latest projects are launching bestsexbloggers.com and writing a book about her experiences as a sex worker, sex writer, sexy wife, and soccer mom. There isn’t a day that goes by that Catalina is immersed in the lifestyle, either through her own personal experiences as a switch or a professional in the sex industry. When she is not at work or play in the scene, she’s playing with her children, running, doing yoga, or just enjoying some non-work related online fun.


Ellie Lumpesse is a pretentious pervert has been writing about her thoughts on sex, BDSM, relationships, non-monogamy, feminism, and rhetoric since March of 2005 and juggles graduate school and teaching with her blogging and podcasting. She started doing phone sex at the request of readers and podcast listeners and, as such, is lucky to have the best phone sex clients in the entire world. Her blog is at Lumpesse.com and her podcast of smut and audio musings is found at bedroomradio.blogspot.com.


Hussy Red writes to you from the charming city of Minneapolis, MN, though her roots remain firmly planted back East in the Garden State where she was born and raised. She is a fourth year Ph.D. student in gender studies focusing on feminist and queer theories and their intersections with new media and fat studies. When she’s not working on her dissertation research on the neo-burlesque movement, Hussy Red keeps busy as the editor of the forthcoming first fat, queer anthology, Spilling Over. She identifies as a fierce, fat, sex- and kink-postiive femme invested in merging her academic dreams with her activist heart. In her spare time, she enjoys causing queer upheaval with her femme sisters and allies in the Twin Cities chapter of the Femme Mafia, teaching butches how to slow dance, and attending cake decorating workshops with Midwestern soccer moms. She is an avid fan of Fig Newtons, yard sales, wooing, and fan mail. Hussy Red also blogs at Femme FATale.


Lady M is a recently femme, deliciously queer chubby writer, baker, and feminist who creates a home wherever her bra lands. Currently teaching in Michigan, she is planning to pursue her PhD in the fall of 2009, focusing on fat embodiments and non-normative sexualities in Arab and Arab-American communities. Lady M enjoys good beer, dirty gossip, and smart TV. In between episodes of 30Rock, she writes academic/creative non-fiction and poetry, sends real live USPS letters, stuffs a mean turkey, looks a fool on the dance floor, sneaks food from her Mama’s kitchen, and manages the destruction wrought by her two charming but evil cats, Lolita and Finnian. She is looking forward to exploring her new femme-ininity and connecting with such an amazing and supportive queer community.


Ms. Hinterland is a crafty lady femme who resides in rural area just slightly outside the metro Atlanta urban sprawl. While she’s the prissy, fussy sort and who simply must have on an apron on to cook, she is tough enough to haul heavy objects, own her own Dewalt drill, and cheerfully change a friend’s tire. She has a keen love for junkin’, and warns that anyone who rides in her car had best be ready to lift random old furniture into her hatchback. Ms. Hinterland adores cupcakes, crafting, reading, gender, sex, butches, and red lipstick. You can read more of writings at The Femme Hinterland.