So, I’m off on a bit of a rant…again…about how impossible it is for me to get my Lesbian Erotica and Female Bisexual Erotic published. You may remember my previous rants:
Well, Screw That People
Writing Lesbian Erotica…
(I’m getting quite tired of complaining so hopefully you will forgive this one last instance)
Most of you who know [...]
So, it’s no secret that I write erotica, mostly BDSM based, and I thought I made it fairly clear in my first two to three published works that sexual preference and gender identity was part of what made my writing work. I was wrong. Today I sent a chapter to one of my critique partners [...]
I was scrolling through the Femme’s Guide Archive, seeing what I’ve missed over the year…trying to get inspired…and I realized there wasn’t a single post tagged to highlight the social network FetLife…and that just seemed…wrong!
So I am here to amend that oversight because I am totally in love with this social networking site. Think Myspace. [...]
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I haven’t blogged at the Femme’s Guide in awhile and I apologize for that…life got a little too intense and the fallout from that has caused weeks to slip by unnoticed. I woke from my funk when a friend asked the other day if I was “ready for the holidays?”
Holidays?
From my fog, I repeated the [...]
I’ve been wanted to learn to rock climb for two decades…there was only one thing standing in my way and it was a doozie…fear of heights, as in a standard ladder was too much to conquer for normal household maintenance (like screwing in a light bulb.) I know, insane.
When I met my hubby the only [...]
Somewhere along the line, someone pointed out to me that I was too Femme for my own good. At the time I wouldn’t have dreamed of leaving the house without full makeup… Manicure…
And Pedicure.
I mean even in winter, the boots and socks have to come off at some point. Right?
At the time, I snickered and [...]
Last week I went to a party…A Gigglefest…and trust me, I had a very good time but something happened that night that has left me thinking…a lot…about all of the rules I have created for myself…
I’m forty-four years old; isn’t it time I throw out some of the old rules with yesterday’s trash? And then [...]
Here we go again…
I was hanging out at one of the alternative lifestyle forums I frequent and the post titled FUTCH popped up…and it didn’t make me thrilled…and I wasn’t even one of the ones asking WTF? Maybe you, as I was, watched when Dani Campbell, one of the contestants on MTV’s Shot at [...]
Believe it or not women can and do ejaculate…and women who honestly believe that they can’t-can be taught how. Personally, I was once one of the latter. I thought women were peeing not ejaculating…and then…(I bet you’ve already guessed)…someone proved me wrong by causing me to ejaculate.
And honestly, how embarrassing to the doubter to be [...]