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Remember to Breathe

If you are like me, or most of the femmes I know, you are busy. Non-stop, perhaps. You have work and/or school, projects, interests, hobbies, friends, groups, lovers, and all manner of fabulous things that take up all of your waking hours. Sure, you say, everyone is busy. Well, that’s true, and this message isn’t [...]

Dear The Femme’s Guide

I’m sorry I’ve been neglecting you for so long, my darling. It’s not something I meant to do, but there have been many changes in my life recently and, to be honest, I’m worried about the safeness of your space. This is something I need to remedy, but I haven’t had the drive to do [...]

Review: Hard Love & How to Fuck in High Heels

Cross-posted from my review site. It’s super long, and there are lots and lots of screenshots (below the cut), apologies if it’s too long for anyone, but hopefully it’s at least easy to skim. Hard Love & How to Fuck in High Heels is a two-for-the-price-of-one DVD from Jackie Strano and Shar Rednour by their [...]

Interviewees needed for Butch/Femme Identity Study

Lifted here from Sinclair, so many of you have probably already seen it, but just in case… Sinclair says: “I’m told she already has about half of her subjects, but needs more, and that the majority of the women she’s interviewed are in their 50s and 60s. C’mon, twenty- and thirtysomethings, represent!” RESEARCHER LOOKING FOR [...]

Visible: A Femmethology – Virtual Tour Day

Cross-posted on Femme Fagette here. Femme–an identity that has caused controversy, celebration and ridicule–is now the topic of a two-volume set from Homofactus Press and editor Jennifer Clare Burke titled Visible: A Femmethology. Femmethology calls the LGBTQI community on its own prejudice and celebrates the diversity of individual femmes. Award-winning authors, spoken-word artists, and totally [...]

Culinary Comfort: Curry Bake

Whenever I mention I am going to make curry bake on twitter I always have people asking me about what’s in it and how to make it, especially after I made it for Kyle and he raved about it on his blog (it may be the cure to hangovers according to him). The sauce is [...]

Contribute to Our New Layout

We have a new site layout here on The Femme’s Guide which I’m actually pretty excited about! It’s similar to the previous layout while also being different enough to be a change. The image to the left (if you’re reading this on the site itself) changes when the page is refreshed. Currently there are six [...]

Review: Gigi by LELO

Find the Pink or Deep Rose Gigi along with other vibrators and sex toys of every flavor on SexToy.Com. Much thanks to SexToy.Com for letting me review the LELO Gigi! Technorati Tags: lelo, review, sex, sex toy, sex toys, sextoy.com, toys, vibrator, vibrators

Size & Sexuality Study

From The Full Body Project by Leonard Nimoy I’ve been thinking a lot about size in general, both big and small and everywhere in between. Chicory (who I met face-to-face and is fantastic!) and I have been conversing about it, via email, comments, and in our meeting yesterday, and inspired by Thursday’s Child’s Sex and [...]

NoFauxxx Queer Photo Contest!

The incredibly sexy and absolutely awesome NoFauxxx.Com is having a Holiday Photo Contest! You can win some delicious queer porn, and who doesn’t want that? Anything from NoFauxxx is hot, sexy, and delicious. I have a review coming soon of them as well! Win a Free Year-Long Membership to NoFauxxx.Com for you and a friend! [...]

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