My Hero - The Hitachi Magic Wand!

The Hitachi Magic Wand is a product that really needs no introduction. Practically everybody has at least heard of amazing orgasms induced by the Magic Wand and when you add the G-spot attachment to it, it becomes a vibrator superhero. I’m not going to go on and on telling you about how my Magic Wand is never out of reach of my bed. I won’t spend this entire review saying how much I appreciate that it’s powered by electricity, so I never have to worry about getting almost there only to have the batteries die (rechargeable or otherwise). Instead of tell you how the Hitachi Magic Wand has lasted me for years and years of almost daily use, I decided to write 5 reasons why I love my Hitachi Magic Wand. If you haven’t used one yet, you’ll want to after you read this:

1. Strong clitoral orgasms that leave your knees shaking. It doesn’t have to be just a masturbation toy - sometimes while Marky is fucking me from behind, I’ve got the Magic Wand nestled between my legs on my clit so that I have the extra stimulation. Every thrust of his pushes my clit harder against it until, if we’re lucky and our timing is good, I can have a G-spot orgasm a clitoral orgasm and he can come at the same time. This is the reason why staying up until 3:30 am for sex when you have to be up at 7 am with kids is worth it sometimes!

2. G-spot orgasm after G-spot orgasm (my first squirting orgasms were from the Hitachi w/ attachment). It was like the day I turned 35 my G-spot came to life. It is more likely that I didn’t get my hands on the attachment until then. The G-spot attachment is sturdy and smooth - it slides in so nicely - whether you’re using it yourself or on another.

3. Using the attachment on Marky’s ass (or hearing about how he did it himself while masturbating). You didn’t think this was just a woman’s toy, did you? That same attachment touches the exact right spot for a prostate orgasm. From what Marky tells me, it’s an amazing orgasm that comes (no pun intended) in two waves, first the initial spurt of ejaculation and then a “lava flow” of prostate ejaculate, a thicker and distinct ejaculation. Being a cumslut, naturally, I love to watch this happen.

4. Having it used on me while I’m bound and helpless. Sometimes you want it to be in just the right place so badly but the top just won’t put it right there, a tease and denial game that causes your body to try to find the vibrator the way a seedling heliotropes. Knowing that your partner is going to control your orgasm is extremely arousing mentally. The physical satisfaction is a given.

5. Using it on others for forced orgasms. I love to watch women as they squirm around the tip of the Hitachi Magic Wand, trying to place their clits just right against it so they can come. I love to watch a woman’s face the first time she feels the horn of the G-spot attachment vibrate against her G-spot intensely and then watch as I change the speed from slow to fast and then remove it and play with her until she is nearly mad for that orgasm. I love to slide it into a man’s ass while gently stroking his cock or taking it into my mouth - the combination is nothing short of magical, or so I hear.

So there you have it - if it weren’t abundantly clear before, the Hitachi Magic Wand and the G-spot attachment are staples of any good toybox. It should be the first thing a young woman buys for herself when she goes off to college, it should be a wedding gift, men should buy it for their girlfriend or wife and women should buy it for their men - heck, it should be for sale in the waiting room of the marriage therapist’s office. It’s one of those toys that has so successfully been marketed as a ::wink wink:: massager, that you can have one without really worrying about the social stigma that can be attached with sex toys.

All I can say is, I feel sorry for the poor soul without an Hitachi Magic Wand - you are really missing out! Go straight to VibeReview.com and buy one - if you use this coupon code, you’ll even get 10% off through election day.

Believe it or not women can and do ejaculate…and women who honestly believe that they can’t-can be taught how. Personally, I was once one of the latter. I thought women were peeing not ejaculating…and then…(I bet you’ve already guessed)…someone proved me wrong by causing me to ejaculate.

And honestly, how embarrassing to the doubter to be not only proven wrong but left laying in a puddle blushing head to toe.

So, how can you tell if you’ve ejaculated? The obvious sign is a gush of wetness just before or during orgasm. Some women actually produce a spray or stream…

It is my belief (now that I am a female ejaculation convert) that all women can ejaculate…

It merely takes patience, practice, and a willingness to learn. So partner up and let’s get started (although for the very shy a solo run is very possible.) First comes exploration of the G-spot.

The g-spot is the spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is similar to the male prostate. It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. (The same side as your belly button.)

You can explore your g-spot with your fingers or a curved dildo. I find it easier the first time to go with fingers because feeling the difference in texture in the vaginal wall is important. The area directly over the g-spot will feel bumpy or rough compared to the smoother surrounding area. Remember, smooth fingernails and lube are important…

And really, this step by step approach is going to read kind of dry, so remember…kissing, cuddling, massaging, teasing are all assumed as foreplay before you dive in…the g-spot is much easier to find when you (or your partner) are highly aroused…*wink*

Solo Practice:

Slowly insert one or two fingers into your vagina and make a “come hither” motion stroking the front wall of the vagina. Sometimes it helps to apply pressure from the outside with your free hand. Press down in the area just above your pelvic bone while simultaneously stroking the g-spot until you are feel like you are going to pee. (Don’t stop because you are getting close!) As you near orgasm, push a little and the stream of liquid that flows out is ejaculate.

Partner Play:

Face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina about two inches. Then crook your fingers in a “come hither” motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall.  If you don’t get an immediate response, don’t panic, sometimes direct pressure from the outside is needed to find the g-spot successful…and…every woman is different. Some women need soft touches, others harder touches, that’s where practice come in.

Be prepared:

The amount of liquid expelled during female ejaculation can vary from a teaspoon to a cup…and on bed sheets…that’s a lot of liquid. So have towels ready. Try to not be too disappointed if on first try there is little volume…the secret is to stroke the g-spot to “plump it up” and as you do create more fluid. Again. Practice makes perfect.

If you Google G-spot or Female Ejaculation…you will get a myriad of results. What you will not find are what comes from experience…

All of that play and exploration leads to over-sensitivity and it is not uncommon to feel “uncomfortable” the next day…especially if ejaculation isn’t achieved…because the fluid build up will be in that spongy area. Before I actually “learned” how to ejaculate, I thought I had a constant UTI from too vigorous play. Once I figured out that liquid build-up was the cause measures could be taken to not feel so tender and swollen. Now that I am an experienced ejaculator, if I feel that there is excess fluid it can be “milked out” with that same “come hither” motion, but usually I’ll just take a couple aspirin or Motrin after extended g-spot play.

Also, if you do experience frequent UTI’s make it a habit to urinate immediately after any play that involves lube and/or g-spot play.

Now it’s your turn, tell me your ejaculation stories…triumphs, failures, most embarressing moments…tricks to make it easier for a first timer…